American founding father Thomas Jefferson once said, "Never spend your money before you have earned it." It seems as if every single American today could learn one big lesson from Thomas. Save your money. Its time that someone took this idea to heart. For years Americans have spent money that was not theirs to spend; in fact, our entire country is in trillions of dollars of debt because we spent money that we did not earn. This particular post is not going to be a rant on why we need to change, but rather, a memory of times when we had money to spend, and how sometimes spending that money is not the best thing to do.
From the new millennium to the mid 1980’s to the millennium, my family was particularly blessed financially. My father was the owner of a successful Chrysler dealership in a small town. In a matter of 10 years, from 1995 to 2005, we were able to travel to Florida and Hawaii . We purchased a hot tub, a baby grand piano, and a reasonably fast boat. Christmas was filled with a large amount of presents, and lavish gifts.
However, after the beginning of the recession, the car sector was one of the first to be hit, and the dealership was forced to close. And so, we were thrust into some hard times. No more company sponsored trips, no more lavish Christmases, and no more boating trips. But I believe that all of this has made my entire family and I better people. We realized that the love of our family is more important than any other thing that could distract us from that love.
It is odd, sometimes, to assess your life in good times in contrast to bad and realize what is different. I have found that yes, money can create enjoyable situations and carefree times, but it isn’t until that enjoyment is taken away that you realize that you don’t need those luxuries to be happy. Some of my most fond memories are those where I’m hanging out with friends, or just chilling with family. True happiness is just made by interaction.
However, money, in an American culture, is important today. It does help accomplish goals and make futures. So, in my own opinion, it is important to keep your decisions thrifty. Knowing when and what to buy is one life lesson that will keep bad times of your life to a minimum. So I challenge you America , think about your purchases before you buy. Should you save that money for something in the future, or do you really need that new exercise equipment on T.V.? Be smart, and keep your buying power reserved for the things that really matter: your family and friends.